Maybe  this is why it seems "only" women's letters to Abby are printed....  

Dear  Abby,

I've  never written to you before, but I really need your advice on what  

could be  a crucial decision. I've suspected for some time now that my

wife has  been cheating on me.

The usual  signs... phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My  

wife has  been going out with the girls a lot recently although when I

ask their  names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't  

know  them."

I always  stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always  

walks  down the drive. Although I can hear a c ar driving off, as if she  

has  gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn't in a  


I once  picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she  

went  berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and  

why was I  checking up on her.

Anyway, I  have never approached the subject with my wife. I think deep

down I  just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out  

again and  I decided to really check on her.

I decided  I was going to park my Harley Davidson motorcycle next to the  

garage  and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole  

street  when she came home.

It was at  that moment, crouching behind
my Harley, that I noticed that

the valve  covers on my engine seemed to be leaking a little oil.

Is this  something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the


Thanks,   Concerned
,from Daytona Beach.